The Things We Never Say - Elizabeth Strout

The Things We Never Say

By Elizabeth Strout

  • Release Date: 2026-05-05
  • Genre: Literary Fiction
Score: 4
4
From 508 Ratings

Description

NEW YORK TIMES BESTSELLER • In this “profound, resplendent novel”* from Pulitzer Prize–winning, #1 New York Times bestselling author Elizabeth Strout, a chance incident sparks a powerful realization in a beloved teacher’s life

“Strout’s capacious empathy and rigorous attention to the nuances of human behavior and psychology are as evident as ever.”—The Boston Globe

“Artie Dam is someone you may never be able to forget.”—Financial Times*

Artie Dam is living a double life. He spends his days teaching history to eleventh graders, expanding their young minds, correcting their casual cruelties, and lending a kind word to those who need it most. He goes to holiday parties with his wife of three decades, makes small talk with neighbors, and, on weekends, takes his sailboat out on the beautiful Massachusetts Bay. He is, by all appearances, present and alive. But inside, Artie is plagued by feelings of isolation. He looks out at a world gone mad—at himself and the people around him—and turns a question over and over in his mind: How is it that we know so little about one another, even those closest to us?

And then, one day, Artie learns that life has been keeping a secret from him, one that threatens to upend his entire world. Once he learns it, he is forced to chart a new course, to reconsider the relationships he holds most dear—and to make peace with the mysteries at the heart of our existence.

Elizabeth Strout, as we have come to expect, delivers a moving exploration of the human condition—one that brims with compassion for each and every one of her indelible characters. With exquisite prose and profound insight, The Things We Never Say takes one man’s fears and loneliness and makes them universal. And in the same breath, captures the abiding love that sustains and holds us all.

Reviews

  • Relevant

    5
    By Katkerst64
    Such a compelling story, with so many unique characters. What is especially interesting is that the novel mentions numerous times that a president has been elected. The dismay and brief retelling of the past year's events under Trump makes for a dry believable novel.
  • There’s something about this book

    5
    By ritireads
    I finished this book feeling a deep sadness, which I think was the point. Artie’s life and thoughts and relationships are so normal, unspectacular. But the author’s attention to detail and the contradictions of his mind make the book what it is. His loneliness and grief and confusion and joy come through beautifully. I love that the author gives us glimpses into the perspectives of people on the periphery of his life. There’s a line about how every person has within them an unknowable universe. The book captures that idea so well.
  • TDS

    1
    By Miroreca
    I was sad I bought this book. More political jabs at Republicans and Trump. Unless you feel the same, don’t waste your money.
  • Deeply moving

    5
    By petulapug
    I found this novel to be deeply moving, both profoundly painful and hopeful, talking about the secrets we keep to ourselves and the meaningful ways we can reach out with kindness and make a difference in the lives of others. I’ll be thinking about this book for a long time.
  • Meh

    2
    By Slots super fan
    Dull
  • The Things we never say.

    2
    By Dedra Grizzard
    A few good moments in the book but overall not a fan. Glad I finished it
  • Horrible

    1
    By D.massachusetts
    Too bad politics ruined this book.
  • Wonderful book

    5
    By nobookclub1
    A very moving story. And so true that we never really know another human. We need more teachers like Artie.
  • The Things We Should Never Read

    1
    By cbybird
    A manipulative effort by the author to weave in her biased and distorted political perspective into what may have otherwise been a touching, albeit depressing, story.
  • Contemplating my own life

    5
    By BeebCeed78
    I cried on and off reading this book. The COVID pandemic left a pandemic of loneliness in its wake, and I now realize I am lonely and scared to say how I really feel. As I read Artie’s story, memories from my own life played in my head. It made me long for the innocence I had before I had to become a grown‑up. I should join a book club.

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